Marycollette Matiki an OGOJA born writer and an SM fanatics send a strong message to her future husband..

You must read this....

Dear Future Husband,
Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Happy Valentine's Day, Happy Easter and every other holiday I did not write to you.

I miss you and writing to you. A lot has happened since I wrote to you, from clocking the big silver jubilee age, to a sweet attempt at adding good weight *this is the point where most of my friends will laugh or roll their eyes*.

Most times, I wrote to you in my head, other times I was too busy building myself, dealing with life and change, to remember you. It got to a point where reality scared me from writing to you, but I am back and I hope it is for good.

How body? Should I go on with our routine questions? Our beards nko? I have a confession sef, I no longer looooooove them. I just love them now.

Today, I'm writing about the gospel according to Banky W and Adesua's engagement and the beautiful place called FRIENDZONE.

You see, Banky W saw Adesua, liked her and instantly knew he wanted to spend forever with her. He dived into her dm (direct message) and I guess, started the process of being her friend first, not her "husband to be." It took her almost two years of being friends to see what he saw, feel what he felt and accepted to spend forever with him.

I guess you are wondering why am I stressing on these details, the answer is PATIENCE. The friend zone is not as bad as you think or the internet paints it to be. Wonderful happens there if it is utilised wisely and not abused.
Wonderful things like friendship, trust and respect.

If there's anything I have learnt about marriage from observation, reading and unlearning, it is that, when the mushy-mushy feeling of having a million butterflies from love dies down with age, what keeps the marriage going is friendship l, trust and respect.

So, Oga Sir, all I'm trying to yarn is that ehh. I want to be your friend first, then lover and wife.
I can't wait for this to happen but ironically, I can wait because forever is a long time to rush into.

Your Worry-Worry Wonder Woman
Mc Matiki-Your Surname.

P.S

I cooked one badass beniseed soup, the type I will be using to controlling our mumu button 😉😉

Suspecting MC has gotten someone close to heart..,hmmm

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